"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bumping into the girl you met at that party...

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hey guys

i was at a party on friday night and was dancing and kissing this girl that goes to my school, and we were both drunk, i can only vaguely remember it, so im not sure if she wil be able to remmeber. i wasnt able to get her number.

i see her around school nearly everyday so im likely to see her tomorow, but i have no idea what im going to say to her, as this is such a tricky situation.

im in need of some advice of what to say to her when i see her. so if any of you have any ideas then please share them :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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perhaps "hey, i had fun at that party last night. how about you? Remind me again what your name is ;)"
 

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ye thats quite a gd one :) thanks
 

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haha same thing happened to me the other night

hm it was a bit strange because i never talked to her before that night and we had a little fun... just say hi to her in the hallway or whatever
 

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great..she doesnt remember it lol any suggestions now??
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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if she really doesn't remember then just don't worry about it. Hook up with her again if the opportunity presents itself, but you may as well never have met her. This is what you get for hooking up with a hor. don't expect much from it :rockon:
 

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obsidian that makes alot of sense actually :) you no ur stuff ;)
 
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