"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bumping into the girl you met at that party...

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hey guys

i was at a party on friday night and was dancing and kissing this girl that goes to my school, and we were both drunk, i can only vaguely remember it, so im not sure if she wil be able to remmeber. i wasnt able to get her number.

i see her around school nearly everyday so im likely to see her tomorow, but i have no idea what im going to say to her, as this is such a tricky situation.

im in need of some advice of what to say to her when i see her. so if any of you have any ideas then please share them :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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perhaps "hey, i had fun at that party last night. how about you? Remind me again what your name is ;)"
 

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ye thats quite a gd one :) thanks
 

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haha same thing happened to me the other night

hm it was a bit strange because i never talked to her before that night and we had a little fun... just say hi to her in the hallway or whatever
 

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great..she doesnt remember it lol any suggestions now??
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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if she really doesn't remember then just don't worry about it. Hook up with her again if the opportunity presents itself, but you may as well never have met her. This is what you get for hooking up with a hor. don't expect much from it :rockon:
 

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obsidian that makes alot of sense actually :) you no ur stuff ;)
 
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