"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bulking and working a job thats physical

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DJ DaNegro

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i have a question...

so i'm about to begin my bulking workout routine in about a week, along with diet as well. my current job is somewhat physical in nature (i work in a warehouse) and i'm constantly lifting boxes and such which range from 10lbs to 25lbs. my plan is to lift on days when i don't work (mon, wed, fri) and i realize that rest if a vital part of bulking, so my question is will my gains be greatly reduced since i'm burning calories at work? should i eat more calories to compensate? any advice is appreciated...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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donjuanjovi

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Yes, if your goal is to bulk than you're going to need to compensate your diet for the calories burnt at work.
 
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What juanjovi said.

In order to grow you need a calorie surplus. Eat a lot, eat calorie-dense foods like eggs and fats. If you don't see gains, either in the mirror or lifts, you know you're not eating enough, so eat some more.

Have fun. It's a challenge, but one you should and will relish.
 
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I'd reduce the weight lifting to twice a week in your situation
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJ DaNegro said:
howcome? i'm just curious...
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The majority of people over train in addition to not knowing how to train correctly. This results in the CNS getting beat up and never getting a chance to recover, hence you never grow.

Some people can recover fast from workouts (small percent of lifters), while others take a lot longer. I can't say where you are, but if i had to guess i'd assume your in the majority (average to below average genetics (correct me if you have good genetics)). So assuming you didn't have a hard labor job and i was training you i'd still have you on a 2 day split. The job just adds more work on your central nervous system, so you have to becareful with training to much and not allowing time for recovery.
 
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EFFORT said:
(average to below average genetics
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Nitpick:

Why would most people be in the average to below average category? Doesn't that defeat "average?"
 
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