"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If a girl calls you a buddy, what does that mean? Does that mean, she is only wanting to be friends? If so, what should I do?

I don't think I want a girl, if she only thinks of me as a friend. I just think I might want to ditch her.

Should you ever be friends, with a girl?

Also, why is it, a girl can get away with being a friend, with a guy, while a guy can't be friends with a girl.

Ex: If a girl, is friends with a guy, a guy will always want to date her.
However, if a guy is friends with a girl, she only wants to be friends, and doesn't care about sex.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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crossboss said:
If a girl calls you a buddy, what does that mean? Does that mean, she is only wanting to be friends? If so, what should I do?

I don't think I want a girl, if she only thinks of me as a friend. I just think I might want to ditch her.

Should you ever be friends, with a girl?

Also, why is it, a girl can get away with being a friend, with a guy, while a guy can't be friends with a girl.

Ex: If a girl, is friends with a guy, a guy will always want to date her.
However, if a guy is friends with a girl, she only wants to be friends, and doesn't care about sex.
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You have that many posts and you're over analyzing like this?
I've been called buddy by a chic before and still got some action, usually though it doesn't last long, cause I turned that buddy into a "Fu*k buddy" and that's all it usually amounted to.

Now should you ever be friends with a girl? ABSOLUTELY!! Why the **** not? Understand, networking with as many people as possible=increased likelihood of finding more chics to click up with!! Of course you should network on your own also with new social groups. Yet it all adds up and let's be realistic, most the time this is a numbers game.
 
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Sorry

I am sorry, I really need to spend more time doing. I'll try and approach again, and report my results on here.
 
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Friend zone.

Its never a bad thing to have girls as friends.

As long as they arnt all friends
 
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I am sorry, I really need to spend more time doing. I'll try and approach again, and report my results on here.
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And dont apologize. You dont owe us anything
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Most likely friend zone. But who cares?

Simply put, a "buddy" called me last night at 2:30 AM. She had just gotten out of a nightclub with her girlfriends. Ive been spinnin this one for a while now (about 2 months). She doesnt want a relationship and neither do I.

She was at my place at 2:45 and left at 5:00. Needless to say we didnt play scrabble.

Take it for what it is. If the sex is great - then keep the friend. If not - find some "friends" and enjoy it.

The more you think about it the more AFC you become. Laugh it off and enjoy life.
 
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^^^^

Good advice. Listen to this man!
 
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