"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If a girl calls you a buddy, what does that mean? Does that mean, she is only wanting to be friends? If so, what should I do?

I don't think I want a girl, if she only thinks of me as a friend. I just think I might want to ditch her.

Should you ever be friends, with a girl?

Also, why is it, a girl can get away with being a friend, with a guy, while a guy can't be friends with a girl.

Ex: If a girl, is friends with a guy, a guy will always want to date her.
However, if a guy is friends with a girl, she only wants to be friends, and doesn't care about sex.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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crossboss said:
If a girl calls you a buddy, what does that mean? Does that mean, she is only wanting to be friends? If so, what should I do?

I don't think I want a girl, if she only thinks of me as a friend. I just think I might want to ditch her.

Should you ever be friends, with a girl?

Also, why is it, a girl can get away with being a friend, with a guy, while a guy can't be friends with a girl.

Ex: If a girl, is friends with a guy, a guy will always want to date her.
However, if a guy is friends with a girl, she only wants to be friends, and doesn't care about sex.
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You have that many posts and you're over analyzing like this?
I've been called buddy by a chic before and still got some action, usually though it doesn't last long, cause I turned that buddy into a "Fu*k buddy" and that's all it usually amounted to.

Now should you ever be friends with a girl? ABSOLUTELY!! Why the **** not? Understand, networking with as many people as possible=increased likelihood of finding more chics to click up with!! Of course you should network on your own also with new social groups. Yet it all adds up and let's be realistic, most the time this is a numbers game.
 
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Sorry

I am sorry, I really need to spend more time doing. I'll try and approach again, and report my results on here.
 
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Friend zone.

Its never a bad thing to have girls as friends.

As long as they arnt all friends
 
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I am sorry, I really need to spend more time doing. I'll try and approach again, and report my results on here.
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And dont apologize. You dont owe us anything
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Most likely friend zone. But who cares?

Simply put, a "buddy" called me last night at 2:30 AM. She had just gotten out of a nightclub with her girlfriends. Ive been spinnin this one for a while now (about 2 months). She doesnt want a relationship and neither do I.

She was at my place at 2:45 and left at 5:00. Needless to say we didnt play scrabble.

Take it for what it is. If the sex is great - then keep the friend. If not - find some "friends" and enjoy it.

The more you think about it the more AFC you become. Laugh it off and enjoy life.
 
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^^^^

Good advice. Listen to this man!
 
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