"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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crossboss

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If a girl calls you a buddy, what does that mean? Does that mean, she is only wanting to be friends? If so, what should I do?

I don't think I want a girl, if she only thinks of me as a friend. I just think I might want to ditch her.

Should you ever be friends, with a girl?

Also, why is it, a girl can get away with being a friend, with a guy, while a guy can't be friends with a girl.

Ex: If a girl, is friends with a guy, a guy will always want to date her.
However, if a guy is friends with a girl, she only wants to be friends, and doesn't care about sex.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CarlitosWay

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crossboss said:
If a girl calls you a buddy, what does that mean? Does that mean, she is only wanting to be friends? If so, what should I do?

I don't think I want a girl, if she only thinks of me as a friend. I just think I might want to ditch her.

Should you ever be friends, with a girl?

Also, why is it, a girl can get away with being a friend, with a guy, while a guy can't be friends with a girl.

Ex: If a girl, is friends with a guy, a guy will always want to date her.
However, if a guy is friends with a girl, she only wants to be friends, and doesn't care about sex.
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You have that many posts and you're over analyzing like this?
I've been called buddy by a chic before and still got some action, usually though it doesn't last long, cause I turned that buddy into a "Fu*k buddy" and that's all it usually amounted to.

Now should you ever be friends with a girl? ABSOLUTELY!! Why the **** not? Understand, networking with as many people as possible=increased likelihood of finding more chics to click up with!! Of course you should network on your own also with new social groups. Yet it all adds up and let's be realistic, most the time this is a numbers game.
 
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Sorry

I am sorry, I really need to spend more time doing. I'll try and approach again, and report my results on here.
 
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Friend zone.

Its never a bad thing to have girls as friends.

As long as they arnt all friends
 
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I am sorry, I really need to spend more time doing. I'll try and approach again, and report my results on here.
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And dont apologize. You dont owe us anything
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Most likely friend zone. But who cares?

Simply put, a "buddy" called me last night at 2:30 AM. She had just gotten out of a nightclub with her girlfriends. Ive been spinnin this one for a while now (about 2 months). She doesnt want a relationship and neither do I.

She was at my place at 2:45 and left at 5:00. Needless to say we didnt play scrabble.

Take it for what it is. If the sex is great - then keep the friend. If not - find some "friends" and enjoy it.

The more you think about it the more AFC you become. Laugh it off and enjoy life.
 
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^^^^

Good advice. Listen to this man!
 
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