Face is always more valuable than height.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Brutal HeightPill: 6ft4 dude changes his height from 6ft4 to an average 5ft9 and go's from getting a constant 70 matches to 0.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MR ANDREW J BROWN
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Slight bump for this thread.. as per a conversation I had last night..
A text convo I should add. But. So this lady i 'met' online a while ago.. chat fizzled out. She got with somebody etc etc.. I still occasionally speak to her as we share one or teo common interests, but no romantic levels are involved..
She sent me a 'meme about a short guy still being attractive sometimes'.. slightly odd, but I was fairly non plussed by it, she said it was playful etc..and that its just a worldwide generic preference.. probably mostly correct..
Ten minutes later. Went on to say how she'd received so much nastiness over her weight.. and how it was just soul destroying.. Which obviously i dont wish anyone to feel like this, at all.. Nobody should be shamed into sadness or regret over their aesthetic, but it amused me that women hating/ignoring shorter men is just a preference. Men not being into bigger gals is cruel.. same fcuking thing isnt it.?
A text convo I should add. But. So this lady i 'met' online a while ago.. chat fizzled out. She got with somebody etc etc.. I still occasionally speak to her as we share one or teo common interests, but no romantic levels are involved..
She sent me a 'meme about a short guy still being attractive sometimes'.. slightly odd, but I was fairly non plussed by it, she said it was playful etc..and that its just a worldwide generic preference.. probably mostly correct..
Ten minutes later. Went on to say how she'd received so much nastiness over her weight.. and how it was just soul destroying.. Which obviously i dont wish anyone to feel like this, at all.. Nobody should be shamed into sadness or regret over their aesthetic, but it amused me that women hating/ignoring shorter men is just a preference. Men not being into bigger gals is cruel.. same fcuking thing isnt it.?
RoadKing_Rabbit
Senior Don Juan
More like FIFTY.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.