"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Brutal HeightPill: 6ft4 dude changes his height from 6ft4 to an average 5ft9 and go's from getting a constant 70 matches to 0.

Snag87

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The YT guy is facially unattractive. He needs height to compensate for mediocre face.
I put 5'8" on my Tinder profile & did great. I have a good face, but poor height.
If you lack height, you need face.
if you lack face, you need height.
This is not groundbreaking.
Water is wet.
Face is always more valuable than height.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Okay, so now you have 2 paths in front of you:

1 - Cope, be a loser, never reproduce, end in misery.
2 - Stop whining and start taking action towards your goals daily.

Many successful men are short.
 
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Slight bump for this thread.. as per a conversation I had last night..

A text convo I should add. But. So this lady i 'met' online a while ago.. chat fizzled out. She got with somebody etc etc.. I still occasionally speak to her as we share one or teo common interests, but no romantic levels are involved..

She sent me a 'meme about a short guy still being attractive sometimes'.. slightly odd, but I was fairly non plussed by it, she said it was playful etc..and that its just a worldwide generic preference.. probably mostly correct..

Ten minutes later. Went on to say how she'd received so much nastiness over her weight.. and how it was just soul destroying.. Which obviously i dont wish anyone to feel like this, at all.. Nobody should be shamed into sadness or regret over their aesthetic, but it amused me that women hating/ignoring shorter men is just a preference. Men not being into bigger gals is cruel.. same fcuking thing isnt it.?
 

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Everyone lies so much that when women see five nine, they think you are probably five six. If it says six four, you're at least not short. It's like if dating profiles made a woman list her weight. Are you going to believe what she says, or add 20+ pounds?
More like FIFTY.
 

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I'm 5'5 Asian and I met my current girlfriend of three years from a dating site.

Bro, if you failed in dating and think it's your height, the real problem is your attitude, not your height.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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