"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Brother just got over a relashionship

Crissco

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Im looking to send him an article that will help with the break up and also give him a hint about this site (showing that he found it on his own, which will give him more motivation to read).

About him:
-16
-Play video games
-Understands about confidence but has none. Has a gf who was 20 who ****ed him over. Not sure if his GF broke up with him, I think so though.
Great looking kidd and can rule his HS if he tried but has no desire to (I think it would help him to rule that school so he can look back on it).


Any ideas on good articles?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I thought of that, kill this desperation. Only thing is I dont want to belittle him by saying hes non confident and what not. Fifteen lessons seems good but its too long to put in a facebook mail
 

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Crissco said:
I thought of that, kill this desperation. Only thing is I dont want to belittle him by saying hes non confident and what not. Fifteen lessons seems good but its too long to put in a facebook mail
haha I was going to give you that exact article bro
kill that desperation: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16926 (just in case)

Basically, give him anything by Pook, or if you dont want it to be so long, you may have to take some time to cut and paste different parts of posts by Pook, create kind of like a hybrid post

Or, you could do the Alpha article in my signature, personally, i think its a really ill post and it helped me.

Anyways, good luck with your bro, bro
 

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Thanks for the answers guys, I sent him the book of pook in DJ Heros sig.. Exactly what I was looking for. Had no idea that was a PDF file
 
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