"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Brother just got over a relashionship

Crissco

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Im looking to send him an article that will help with the break up and also give him a hint about this site (showing that he found it on his own, which will give him more motivation to read).

About him:
-16
-Play video games
-Understands about confidence but has none. Has a gf who was 20 who ****ed him over. Not sure if his GF broke up with him, I think so though.
Great looking kidd and can rule his HS if he tried but has no desire to (I think it would help him to rule that school so he can look back on it).


Any ideas on good articles?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I thought of that, kill this desperation. Only thing is I dont want to belittle him by saying hes non confident and what not. Fifteen lessons seems good but its too long to put in a facebook mail
 

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Crissco said:
I thought of that, kill this desperation. Only thing is I dont want to belittle him by saying hes non confident and what not. Fifteen lessons seems good but its too long to put in a facebook mail
haha I was going to give you that exact article bro
kill that desperation: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16926 (just in case)

Basically, give him anything by Pook, or if you dont want it to be so long, you may have to take some time to cut and paste different parts of posts by Pook, create kind of like a hybrid post

Or, you could do the Alpha article in my signature, personally, i think its a really ill post and it helped me.

Anyways, good luck with your bro, bro
 

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Thanks for the answers guys, I sent him the book of pook in DJ Heros sig.. Exactly what I was looking for. Had no idea that was a PDF file
 
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