"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Brother just got over a relashionship

Crissco

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Im looking to send him an article that will help with the break up and also give him a hint about this site (showing that he found it on his own, which will give him more motivation to read).

About him:
-16
-Play video games
-Understands about confidence but has none. Has a gf who was 20 who ****ed him over. Not sure if his GF broke up with him, I think so though.
Great looking kidd and can rule his HS if he tried but has no desire to (I think it would help him to rule that school so he can look back on it).


Any ideas on good articles?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I thought of that, kill this desperation. Only thing is I dont want to belittle him by saying hes non confident and what not. Fifteen lessons seems good but its too long to put in a facebook mail
 

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Crissco said:
I thought of that, kill this desperation. Only thing is I dont want to belittle him by saying hes non confident and what not. Fifteen lessons seems good but its too long to put in a facebook mail
haha I was going to give you that exact article bro
kill that desperation: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16926 (just in case)

Basically, give him anything by Pook, or if you dont want it to be so long, you may have to take some time to cut and paste different parts of posts by Pook, create kind of like a hybrid post

Or, you could do the Alpha article in my signature, personally, i think its a really ill post and it helped me.

Anyways, good luck with your bro, bro
 

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Thanks for the answers guys, I sent him the book of pook in DJ Heros sig.. Exactly what I was looking for. Had no idea that was a PDF file
 
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