"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Brother just got over a relashionship

Crissco

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Im looking to send him an article that will help with the break up and also give him a hint about this site (showing that he found it on his own, which will give him more motivation to read).

About him:
-16
-Play video games
-Understands about confidence but has none. Has a gf who was 20 who ****ed him over. Not sure if his GF broke up with him, I think so though.
Great looking kidd and can rule his HS if he tried but has no desire to (I think it would help him to rule that school so he can look back on it).


Any ideas on good articles?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I thought of that, kill this desperation. Only thing is I dont want to belittle him by saying hes non confident and what not. Fifteen lessons seems good but its too long to put in a facebook mail
 

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Crissco said:
I thought of that, kill this desperation. Only thing is I dont want to belittle him by saying hes non confident and what not. Fifteen lessons seems good but its too long to put in a facebook mail
haha I was going to give you that exact article bro
kill that desperation: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16926 (just in case)

Basically, give him anything by Pook, or if you dont want it to be so long, you may have to take some time to cut and paste different parts of posts by Pook, create kind of like a hybrid post

Or, you could do the Alpha article in my signature, personally, i think its a really ill post and it helped me.

Anyways, good luck with your bro, bro
 

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Thanks for the answers guys, I sent him the book of pook in DJ Heros sig.. Exactly what I was looking for. Had no idea that was a PDF file
 
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