My girlfriend broke up with me yesterday. She said that it's because I was not emotional enough with her and never expressed my feelings, the relationship felt like we were just friends with benefits. We were going out for nine months. The break up made me relised that I love her. I feel incredibly sick right now. I want to be with her again. I don't think I will be able to refrain from no-contact. I feel like since she felt like i did not care about her no-contact might not be the best approach. Am I right. I want to meet with her in person again and tell her I lover her. Is this the right thing to do?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Broke Up =(
- Thread starter Boxer
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Take the battery out of your phone right now. RIGHT NOW.
You don't love this chick. You don't you don't you don't.
You're going to expeience a post breakup lapse. DO NOT beg to be with her. Cut off ALL contact.
The road ahead is tough one, but it's the one to self-improvement. You lost her, but looking back you'll learn something new. Move on, dude. Even if it hurts.
You don't love this chick. You don't you don't you don't.
You're going to expeience a post breakup lapse. DO NOT beg to be with her. Cut off ALL contact.
The road ahead is tough one, but it's the one to self-improvement. You lost her, but looking back you'll learn something new. Move on, dude. Even if it hurts.
novaknight
Senior Don Juan
Dude...do you realize what this means?
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You can finally PHUCK HAWT B!TCHES AGAIN!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Marvin Gaye
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Yeah man. I feel you Boxer, I've been seeing your posts around for awhile, saw you mention her a couple times obviously she was a very important girl.
Having said that, you mention
You can stop this...just trtalk to other plates for a bit, go out and run **** maybe wack off for a bit just keep your mind off her and when you're ready to come back and approach this with a level head, then maybe talk to her.
Hopefully my post wasn't just noise lol, I feel you man. all the best.
Having said that, you mention
That don't make no sense lol. Are you basically confirming what she said, that the nine months you dated was only FWB?Boxer said:
Come on dude. Are you thinking with your brain, or with your ****?
You can stop this...just trtalk to other plates for a bit, go out and run **** maybe wack off for a bit just keep your mind off her and when you're ready to come back and approach this with a level head, then maybe talk to her.
Hopefully my post wasn't just noise lol, I feel you man. all the best.