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Broke Up =(

Boxer

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My girlfriend broke up with me yesterday. She said that it's because I was not emotional enough with her and never expressed my feelings, the relationship felt like we were just friends with benefits. We were going out for nine months. The break up made me relised that I love her. I feel incredibly sick right now. I want to be with her again. I don't think I will be able to refrain from no-contact. I feel like since she felt like i did not care about her no-contact might not be the best approach. Am I right. I want to meet with her in person again and tell her I lover her. Is this the right thing to do?
 

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I just lost control of my emotions and sent her a text messege. Has not even been 24 hours yet =( =( =( I know im ruining this formyself but I can't stop it!
 

Amo

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Take the battery out of your phone right now. RIGHT NOW.

You don't love this chick. You don't you don't you don't.

You're going to expeience a post breakup lapse. DO NOT beg to be with her. Cut off ALL contact.

The road ahead is tough one, but it's the one to self-improvement. You lost her, but looking back you'll learn something new. Move on, dude. Even if it hurts.
 

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Negative thoughts down the drain just relax, let t
Yeah man. I feel you Boxer, I've been seeing your posts around for awhile, saw you mention her a couple times obviously she was a very important girl.

Having said that, you mention

Boxer said:
The break up made me relised that I love her.
That don't make no sense lol. Are you basically confirming what she said, that the nine months you dated was only FWB?

I feel incredibly sick right now. I want to be with her again. I don't think I will be able to refrain from no-contact. I feel like since she felt like i did not care about her no-contact might not be the best approach.
Come on dude. Are you thinking with your brain, or with your ****?


You can stop this...just trtalk to other plates for a bit, go out and run **** maybe wack off for a bit just keep your mind off her and when you're ready to come back and approach this with a level head, then maybe talk to her.

Hopefully my post wasn't just noise lol, I feel you man. all the best.
 
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