My girlfriend broke up with me yesterday. She said that it's because I was not emotional enough with her and never expressed my feelings, the relationship felt like we were just friends with benefits. We were going out for nine months. The break up made me relised that I love her. I feel incredibly sick right now. I want to be with her again. I don't think I will be able to refrain from no-contact. I feel like since she felt like i did not care about her no-contact might not be the best approach. Am I right. I want to meet with her in person again and tell her I lover her. Is this the right thing to do?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Broke Up =(
- Thread starter Boxer
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Take the battery out of your phone right now. RIGHT NOW.
You don't love this chick. You don't you don't you don't.
You're going to expeience a post breakup lapse. DO NOT beg to be with her. Cut off ALL contact.
The road ahead is tough one, but it's the one to self-improvement. You lost her, but looking back you'll learn something new. Move on, dude. Even if it hurts.
You don't love this chick. You don't you don't you don't.
You're going to expeience a post breakup lapse. DO NOT beg to be with her. Cut off ALL contact.
The road ahead is tough one, but it's the one to self-improvement. You lost her, but looking back you'll learn something new. Move on, dude. Even if it hurts.
novaknight
Senior Don Juan
Dude...do you realize what this means?
You can finally PHUCK HAWT B!TCHES AGAIN!
You can finally PHUCK HAWT B!TCHES AGAIN!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Marvin Gaye
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Yeah man. I feel you Boxer, I've been seeing your posts around for awhile, saw you mention her a couple times obviously she was a very important girl.
Having said that, you mention
You can stop this...just trtalk to other plates for a bit, go out and run **** maybe wack off for a bit just keep your mind off her and when you're ready to come back and approach this with a level head, then maybe talk to her.
Hopefully my post wasn't just noise lol, I feel you man. all the best.
Having said that, you mention
That don't make no sense lol. Are you basically confirming what she said, that the nine months you dated was only FWB?Boxer said:
Come on dude. Are you thinking with your brain, or with your ****?
You can stop this...just trtalk to other plates for a bit, go out and run **** maybe wack off for a bit just keep your mind off her and when you're ready to come back and approach this with a level head, then maybe talk to her.
Hopefully my post wasn't just noise lol, I feel you man. all the best.