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send them to her mom's - then get yourself a complete STD test panel including HIV. No sh!t here.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Broke up with my LTR 3 days before 1 year anniversary
- Thread starter backseatjuan
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
backseatjuan
Banned
God I so want a good relationship, long term, with a good girl, beautiful, and good in all aspects, with good parents and everything good.
No mate.backseatjuan said:
You want to read this:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=141177
Take on board what you can, and sort your funking life out. It's never too late to turn it around, and you do need to turn it around.
backseatjuan
Banned
Good article, I'm rereading it.
Tomorrow she's suppose to come get her sh`t. Asked me not to gather it for her, she'd do it herself. I decided I don't want her here, so I'm going to put it all into some luggage and just give it to her when she comes.
My mom wants to send her back to Uzbekistan, buy her ticket. Says it's just better to send her, so there won't be any problems if she gets into trouble. She spoke to her dad and said everything, and basically came up that she's an alcoholic and had this problem for a while.
Too bad I only now find that out, I should have figured it out myself long ago, because all the problems we had were through alcohol.
Anyway, I think I'm feeling alright. Definitely don't want to do anything with her. Though I'm going to send her back, unless she says no, I'm not going to make her.
Because of all the talk with my mom over skype, I do kind of get mixed feelings of going and looking for her on the streets. But that's stupid, she's not on the streets. She's with someone right now, I don't give a f`ck who. Be nice if she don't end up in morgue and flies back though.
Tomorrow she's suppose to come get her sh`t. Asked me not to gather it for her, she'd do it herself. I decided I don't want her here, so I'm going to put it all into some luggage and just give it to her when she comes.
My mom wants to send her back to Uzbekistan, buy her ticket. Says it's just better to send her, so there won't be any problems if she gets into trouble. She spoke to her dad and said everything, and basically came up that she's an alcoholic and had this problem for a while.
Too bad I only now find that out, I should have figured it out myself long ago, because all the problems we had were through alcohol.
Anyway, I think I'm feeling alright. Definitely don't want to do anything with her. Though I'm going to send her back, unless she says no, I'm not going to make her.
Because of all the talk with my mom over skype, I do kind of get mixed feelings of going and looking for her on the streets. But that's stupid, she's not on the streets. She's with someone right now, I don't give a f`ck who. Be nice if she don't end up in morgue and flies back though.