GotED?
Master Don Juan
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send them to her mom's - then get yourself a complete STD test panel including HIV. No sh!t here.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Broke up with my LTR 3 days before 1 year anniversary
- Thread starter backseatjuan
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
backseatjuan
Banned
God I so want a good relationship, long term, with a good girl, beautiful, and good in all aspects, with good parents and everything good.
No mate.backseatjuan said:
You want to read this:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=141177
Take on board what you can, and sort your funking life out. It's never too late to turn it around, and you do need to turn it around.
backseatjuan
Banned
Good article, I'm rereading it.
Tomorrow she's suppose to come get her sh`t. Asked me not to gather it for her, she'd do it herself. I decided I don't want her here, so I'm going to put it all into some luggage and just give it to her when she comes.
My mom wants to send her back to Uzbekistan, buy her ticket. Says it's just better to send her, so there won't be any problems if she gets into trouble. She spoke to her dad and said everything, and basically came up that she's an alcoholic and had this problem for a while.
Too bad I only now find that out, I should have figured it out myself long ago, because all the problems we had were through alcohol.
Anyway, I think I'm feeling alright. Definitely don't want to do anything with her. Though I'm going to send her back, unless she says no, I'm not going to make her.
Because of all the talk with my mom over skype, I do kind of get mixed feelings of going and looking for her on the streets. But that's stupid, she's not on the streets. She's with someone right now, I don't give a f`ck who. Be nice if she don't end up in morgue and flies back though.
Tomorrow she's suppose to come get her sh`t. Asked me not to gather it for her, she'd do it herself. I decided I don't want her here, so I'm going to put it all into some luggage and just give it to her when she comes.
My mom wants to send her back to Uzbekistan, buy her ticket. Says it's just better to send her, so there won't be any problems if she gets into trouble. She spoke to her dad and said everything, and basically came up that she's an alcoholic and had this problem for a while.
Too bad I only now find that out, I should have figured it out myself long ago, because all the problems we had were through alcohol.
Anyway, I think I'm feeling alright. Definitely don't want to do anything with her. Though I'm going to send her back, unless she says no, I'm not going to make her.
Because of all the talk with my mom over skype, I do kind of get mixed feelings of going and looking for her on the streets. But that's stupid, she's not on the streets. She's with someone right now, I don't give a f`ck who. Be nice if she don't end up in morgue and flies back though.