"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Broke up with my LTR 3 days before 1 year anniversary

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Good article, I'm rereading it.


Tomorrow she's suppose to come get her sh`t. Asked me not to gather it for her, she'd do it herself. I decided I don't want her here, so I'm going to put it all into some luggage and just give it to her when she comes.

My mom wants to send her back to Uzbekistan, buy her ticket. Says it's just better to send her, so there won't be any problems if she gets into trouble. She spoke to her dad and said everything, and basically came up that she's an alcoholic and had this problem for a while.

Too bad I only now find that out, I should have figured it out myself long ago, because all the problems we had were through alcohol.

Anyway, I think I'm feeling alright. Definitely don't want to do anything with her. Though I'm going to send her back, unless she says no, I'm not going to make her.

Because of all the talk with my mom over skype, I do kind of get mixed feelings of going and looking for her on the streets. But that's stupid, she's not on the streets. She's with someone right now, I don't give a f`ck who. Be nice if she don't end up in morgue and flies back though.
 
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