"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Broke up with my LTR 3 days before 1 year anniversary

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Good article, I'm rereading it.


Tomorrow she's suppose to come get her sh`t. Asked me not to gather it for her, she'd do it herself. I decided I don't want her here, so I'm going to put it all into some luggage and just give it to her when she comes.

My mom wants to send her back to Uzbekistan, buy her ticket. Says it's just better to send her, so there won't be any problems if she gets into trouble. She spoke to her dad and said everything, and basically came up that she's an alcoholic and had this problem for a while.

Too bad I only now find that out, I should have figured it out myself long ago, because all the problems we had were through alcohol.

Anyway, I think I'm feeling alright. Definitely don't want to do anything with her. Though I'm going to send her back, unless she says no, I'm not going to make her.

Because of all the talk with my mom over skype, I do kind of get mixed feelings of going and looking for her on the streets. But that's stupid, she's not on the streets. She's with someone right now, I don't give a f`ck who. Be nice if she don't end up in morgue and flies back though.
 
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