GotED?
Master Don Juan
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send them to her mom's - then get yourself a complete STD test panel including HIV. No sh!t here.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Broke up with my LTR 3 days before 1 year anniversary
- Thread starter backseatjuan
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
backseatjuan
Banned
God I so want a good relationship, long term, with a good girl, beautiful, and good in all aspects, with good parents and everything good.
No mate.backseatjuan said:
You want to read this:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=141177
Take on board what you can, and sort your funking life out. It's never too late to turn it around, and you do need to turn it around.
backseatjuan
Banned
Good article, I'm rereading it.
Tomorrow she's suppose to come get her sh`t. Asked me not to gather it for her, she'd do it herself. I decided I don't want her here, so I'm going to put it all into some luggage and just give it to her when she comes.
My mom wants to send her back to Uzbekistan, buy her ticket. Says it's just better to send her, so there won't be any problems if she gets into trouble. She spoke to her dad and said everything, and basically came up that she's an alcoholic and had this problem for a while.
Too bad I only now find that out, I should have figured it out myself long ago, because all the problems we had were through alcohol.
Anyway, I think I'm feeling alright. Definitely don't want to do anything with her. Though I'm going to send her back, unless she says no, I'm not going to make her.
Because of all the talk with my mom over skype, I do kind of get mixed feelings of going and looking for her on the streets. But that's stupid, she's not on the streets. She's with someone right now, I don't give a f`ck who. Be nice if she don't end up in morgue and flies back though.
Tomorrow she's suppose to come get her sh`t. Asked me not to gather it for her, she'd do it herself. I decided I don't want her here, so I'm going to put it all into some luggage and just give it to her when she comes.
My mom wants to send her back to Uzbekistan, buy her ticket. Says it's just better to send her, so there won't be any problems if she gets into trouble. She spoke to her dad and said everything, and basically came up that she's an alcoholic and had this problem for a while.
Too bad I only now find that out, I should have figured it out myself long ago, because all the problems we had were through alcohol.
Anyway, I think I'm feeling alright. Definitely don't want to do anything with her. Though I'm going to send her back, unless she says no, I'm not going to make her.
Because of all the talk with my mom over skype, I do kind of get mixed feelings of going and looking for her on the streets. But that's stupid, she's not on the streets. She's with someone right now, I don't give a f`ck who. Be nice if she don't end up in morgue and flies back though.