"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Broke my arm - workout?

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Howdy! I broke my right elbow some 5 weeks ago after some painful bike accident!
The fracture is fixated with wires and I am able to almost fully move the arm, but I cannot put any weight on it (my triceps has almost disappeared). The doctor says I should wait another 1-2 months before putting heavy strain on it.

But I want to keep the rest of my body fit! I'm going crazy just sitting around.

I've started working out again, but I can't do most of the things I usually do (pullups, pushups, bench press etc).
What kind of exercises can you recommend for training shoulders/back/chest/Torso in general?
The deal is: no pressure on the right arm, including biceps, triceps and the bones in the elbow.

At the moment I'm only doing legs and abs - have some creative ideas? :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dont be a dumbass. Just keep doing legs and abs, unless you want to f*ck up your arm even more.
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
Dont be a dumbass. Just keep doing legs and abs, unless you want to f*ck up your arm even more.
i agree with him.
 

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Legs, abs, and maybe some hyperextensions for your lower back.

Other than that, work on your diet. Then when doc says you're free to go, start training arms/chest/shoulders.
 

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Yeah, I already said I'm not doing anything with the arm. Just wanted to check with you guys if there's any easy exercise I'm missing... well apparently not.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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you can still squat though right?
 

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YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!!!!

Just now I did my first pushup, after some 17 weeks of sitting around.
And it feels ****ING GREAT! :trouble:
 
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I wouldn't squat. Way too difficult to stabilize the bar with only 1 good arm.

Stick to leg press until your arm heals up.
 

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Yeah, I didn't do any.
But as I said, yesterday I managed my first pushup and also a pullup with both arms, so I'll be hitting the gym in a couple of days! Finally.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do snatches with the left arm, DB curls, overhead press, whatever you can grab in the left arm. I forgot where i read it but when you work out one arm the other improves in strength regardless of you using it, to maintain balance it shifts over like 20% of gains or something. Your broken right arm will get stronger because your lifting with your left. So dont stop working out thats for sure.
 

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Huffman said:
Howdy! I broke my right elbow some 5 weeks ago after some painful bike accident!
The fracture is fixated with wires and I am able to almost fully move the arm, but I cannot put any weight on it (my triceps has almost disappeared). The doctor says I should wait another 1-2 months before putting heavy strain on it.

But I want to keep the rest of my body fit! I'm going crazy just sitting around.
And how do you expect to be fit if you ruin the arm again?

Don't be a candidate: The Darwin Awards.
 

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I know exactly how you feel. A year ago I completely screwed up my knee and was on crutches for 2 months. Now, I strained something in my wrist and can't put ANY stress on it for 4-6 weeks. Not to mention I'm sick lol. Anyway, I have a stability ball at home so I've been using that for abs and I've been doing regular, unweighted squats (not much more I can do).
 
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