"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Broke my arm - workout?

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Howdy! I broke my right elbow some 5 weeks ago after some painful bike accident!
The fracture is fixated with wires and I am able to almost fully move the arm, but I cannot put any weight on it (my triceps has almost disappeared). The doctor says I should wait another 1-2 months before putting heavy strain on it.

But I want to keep the rest of my body fit! I'm going crazy just sitting around.

I've started working out again, but I can't do most of the things I usually do (pullups, pushups, bench press etc).
What kind of exercises can you recommend for training shoulders/back/chest/Torso in general?
The deal is: no pressure on the right arm, including biceps, triceps and the bones in the elbow.

At the moment I'm only doing legs and abs - have some creative ideas? :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dont be a dumbass. Just keep doing legs and abs, unless you want to f*ck up your arm even more.
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
Dont be a dumbass. Just keep doing legs and abs, unless you want to f*ck up your arm even more.
i agree with him.
 

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Legs, abs, and maybe some hyperextensions for your lower back.

Other than that, work on your diet. Then when doc says you're free to go, start training arms/chest/shoulders.
 

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Yeah, I already said I'm not doing anything with the arm. Just wanted to check with you guys if there's any easy exercise I'm missing... well apparently not.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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speed dawg

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you can still squat though right?
 

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YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!!!!

Just now I did my first pushup, after some 17 weeks of sitting around.
And it feels ****ING GREAT! :trouble:
 
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I wouldn't squat. Way too difficult to stabilize the bar with only 1 good arm.

Stick to leg press until your arm heals up.
 

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Yeah, I didn't do any.
But as I said, yesterday I managed my first pushup and also a pullup with both arms, so I'll be hitting the gym in a couple of days! Finally.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do snatches with the left arm, DB curls, overhead press, whatever you can grab in the left arm. I forgot where i read it but when you work out one arm the other improves in strength regardless of you using it, to maintain balance it shifts over like 20% of gains or something. Your broken right arm will get stronger because your lifting with your left. So dont stop working out thats for sure.
 

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Huffman said:
Howdy! I broke my right elbow some 5 weeks ago after some painful bike accident!
The fracture is fixated with wires and I am able to almost fully move the arm, but I cannot put any weight on it (my triceps has almost disappeared). The doctor says I should wait another 1-2 months before putting heavy strain on it.

But I want to keep the rest of my body fit! I'm going crazy just sitting around.
And how do you expect to be fit if you ruin the arm again?

Don't be a candidate: The Darwin Awards.
 

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I know exactly how you feel. A year ago I completely screwed up my knee and was on crutches for 2 months. Now, I strained something in my wrist and can't put ANY stress on it for 4-6 weeks. Not to mention I'm sick lol. Anyway, I have a stability ball at home so I've been using that for abs and I've been doing regular, unweighted squats (not much more I can do).
 
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