You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
coming and goingL B said:I would like to know the title of the porn she was watching.
Strelok said:Now I would like to read all the mature users of this forum explaining why that girl felt the need to masturbate in front a porno movie.
I'm unable to give a good explanation because she is not ugly,she is even beautiful so i don't think she could had any problem to get a fvckbuddy.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
taiyuu_otoko said:coming and going
If you ever watch Japanese porn, (or bang a vociferous J-girl) you'll notice they say "Iku, Iku," a lot, which means "going, going." Literally it is shorthand for "going to heaven."TyTe`EyEz said:That orgasm must have been heavenly.
Thank you for introducing me to this fad. I think I've finally decided on my next vacation destination.taiyuu_otoko said:J-girl
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
pun intended?TyTe`EyEz said:That orgasm must have been heavenly.
She was probably fvcking nuts.Strelok said:Now I would like to read all the mature users of this forum explaining why that girl felt the need to masturbate in front a porno movie.
I'm unable to give a good explanation because she is not ugly,she is even beautiful so i don't think she could had any problem to get a fvckbuddy.