"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bring out your... Bucket Lists?

Kailex

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So, for the last few months, I decided I'd start enjoying the single life and do every single thing that I want to do, before I become one of those old men who look back on life and says: I wish I would have done X activity...

I've recently done just about anything imaginable that I've never done before, from horseback riding, to hitting up Madison Square Garden for a Knicks game, to seeing the Empire State Building, to planning trips to both Atlantic City and Washington D.C. amongst many other things that I have planned.

But, I never WROTE down a list, so, I'd like some help from the SoSuave community. Hopefully at least 2 of you will respond. :p

I want to know of things you want to do that you've never done before, or even about experiences of stuff you DID do that you feel accomplished for doing.

One thing I definitely have up soon is seeing Medieval Times (always wanted to go, I don't care), paintball, and sky-diving.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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5string

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Funnest time I ever had? Went to Dublin Ireland with a buddy. Spent a few days there seeing the sights, pub crawlin, etc. Then flew from Dublin to Scotland where we stayed in some B&B's and toured all the single malt distilleries in the Highlands. Even toured the Guinness factory in Dublin. Will never forget that trip. Great time.
 

kingsam

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kailex you need to go to thailand...full moon parties, ping pong ball shows etc...
and the amsterdam Red light district
 

Ease

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I would love to go to creamfields, or WMC in miami this year.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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BigJimbo

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If you boys are really straight you should just think one word - Ukraine. You will know why after a week there.
 

speed dawg

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I'd love to get all my buddies, pitch in a bunch of money, and hire strippers on a party barge, preferably during a football Saturday starting at noon, and letting the party go on all day and get friggin' insane that night. Plenty of booze, food and whatever else your heart may desire. I'm talking 2 or 3 girls per guy. Just an insane time.

Not exactly in line with my religion, but we all have sinned.
 
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