"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bring out your... Bucket Lists?

Kailex

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So, for the last few months, I decided I'd start enjoying the single life and do every single thing that I want to do, before I become one of those old men who look back on life and says: I wish I would have done X activity...

I've recently done just about anything imaginable that I've never done before, from horseback riding, to hitting up Madison Square Garden for a Knicks game, to seeing the Empire State Building, to planning trips to both Atlantic City and Washington D.C. amongst many other things that I have planned.

But, I never WROTE down a list, so, I'd like some help from the SoSuave community. Hopefully at least 2 of you will respond. :p

I want to know of things you want to do that you've never done before, or even about experiences of stuff you DID do that you feel accomplished for doing.

One thing I definitely have up soon is seeing Medieval Times (always wanted to go, I don't care), paintball, and sky-diving.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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5string

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Funnest time I ever had? Went to Dublin Ireland with a buddy. Spent a few days there seeing the sights, pub crawlin, etc. Then flew from Dublin to Scotland where we stayed in some B&B's and toured all the single malt distilleries in the Highlands. Even toured the Guinness factory in Dublin. Will never forget that trip. Great time.
 

kingsam

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kailex you need to go to thailand...full moon parties, ping pong ball shows etc...
and the amsterdam Red light district
 

Ease

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I would love to go to creamfields, or WMC in miami this year.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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BigJimbo

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If you boys are really straight you should just think one word - Ukraine. You will know why after a week there.
 

speed dawg

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I'd love to get all my buddies, pitch in a bunch of money, and hire strippers on a party barge, preferably during a football Saturday starting at noon, and letting the party go on all day and get friggin' insane that night. Plenty of booze, food and whatever else your heart may desire. I'm talking 2 or 3 girls per guy. Just an insane time.

Not exactly in line with my religion, but we all have sinned.
 
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