"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Bring out your... Bucket Lists?

Kailex

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So, for the last few months, I decided I'd start enjoying the single life and do every single thing that I want to do, before I become one of those old men who look back on life and says: I wish I would have done X activity...

I've recently done just about anything imaginable that I've never done before, from horseback riding, to hitting up Madison Square Garden for a Knicks game, to seeing the Empire State Building, to planning trips to both Atlantic City and Washington D.C. amongst many other things that I have planned.

But, I never WROTE down a list, so, I'd like some help from the SoSuave community. Hopefully at least 2 of you will respond. :p

I want to know of things you want to do that you've never done before, or even about experiences of stuff you DID do that you feel accomplished for doing.

One thing I definitely have up soon is seeing Medieval Times (always wanted to go, I don't care), paintball, and sky-diving.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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5string

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Funnest time I ever had? Went to Dublin Ireland with a buddy. Spent a few days there seeing the sights, pub crawlin, etc. Then flew from Dublin to Scotland where we stayed in some B&B's and toured all the single malt distilleries in the Highlands. Even toured the Guinness factory in Dublin. Will never forget that trip. Great time.
 

kingsam

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kailex you need to go to thailand...full moon parties, ping pong ball shows etc...
and the amsterdam Red light district
 

Ease

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I would love to go to creamfields, or WMC in miami this year.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BigJimbo

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If you boys are really straight you should just think one word - Ukraine. You will know why after a week there.
 

speed dawg

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I'd love to get all my buddies, pitch in a bunch of money, and hire strippers on a party barge, preferably during a football Saturday starting at noon, and letting the party go on all day and get friggin' insane that night. Plenty of booze, food and whatever else your heart may desire. I'm talking 2 or 3 girls per guy. Just an insane time.

Not exactly in line with my religion, but we all have sinned.
 
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