"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i broke up with my girlfriend but she can't accept it, she keeps bugging me and I refuse to answer the phone. what should I do? just change my number and be done with it? although I'd hate to ever speak with her again so this morning i saw like 5 missed calls and she txts me trying to get me jealous saying she is getting new roomates and is moving in to the house down the street from me, wtf?? she is giving my number out to people and they are calling me saying why since i broke her heart they're coming after me. I've never had a problem like this before and would like to get any kind of advice on what to do? thank you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ignore her, she'll get over it with time.

Although she may have bitter feelings towards you for the rest of her life...
 

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Be dilligent: gather up the evidence and take it to the police. She's stalking and harrassing you.

If some stranger calls you, say you've never heard of a girl named ___, and she must be playing pranks.
 

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Turn it around to your advantage. Having a girl begging to come back has it's benefits. Use it to make other girls wonder what is it you have that got her hooked.
 

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when i broke up with my gf she wouldn't stop for months. but she did eventually. she was begging once; "what if i moved closer to you?", "what if we have sex?" crazy i tell ya.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ya.... just kick it.

Keep the distance/silence.
If you ended... then continue your behaivor as such.
She knows the final note... just hasn't accepted the reality of it yet.

And if you truly want to break up w. her... then stick to your note.
She'll hear the music sooner or later, even if she doesn't want to.
(and tries a thousand and one ways to get at you, making you react)

Just play it cool playa.
Let it dissolve, and carry on with whats right for your life on the up.
 
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