"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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hornetsfan

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i broke up with my girlfriend but she can't accept it, she keeps bugging me and I refuse to answer the phone. what should I do? just change my number and be done with it? although I'd hate to ever speak with her again so this morning i saw like 5 missed calls and she txts me trying to get me jealous saying she is getting new roomates and is moving in to the house down the street from me, wtf?? she is giving my number out to people and they are calling me saying why since i broke her heart they're coming after me. I've never had a problem like this before and would like to get any kind of advice on what to do? thank you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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-=Ice-T=-

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Ignore her, she'll get over it with time.

Although she may have bitter feelings towards you for the rest of her life...
 

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Be dilligent: gather up the evidence and take it to the police. She's stalking and harrassing you.

If some stranger calls you, say you've never heard of a girl named ___, and she must be playing pranks.
 

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Turn it around to your advantage. Having a girl begging to come back has it's benefits. Use it to make other girls wonder what is it you have that got her hooked.
 

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when i broke up with my gf she wouldn't stop for months. but she did eventually. she was begging once; "what if i moved closer to you?", "what if we have sex?" crazy i tell ya.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ya.... just kick it.

Keep the distance/silence.
If you ended... then continue your behaivor as such.
She knows the final note... just hasn't accepted the reality of it yet.

And if you truly want to break up w. her... then stick to your note.
She'll hear the music sooner or later, even if she doesn't want to.
(and tries a thousand and one ways to get at you, making you react)

Just play it cool playa.
Let it dissolve, and carry on with whats right for your life on the up.
 
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