"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hornetsfan

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i broke up with my girlfriend but she can't accept it, she keeps bugging me and I refuse to answer the phone. what should I do? just change my number and be done with it? although I'd hate to ever speak with her again so this morning i saw like 5 missed calls and she txts me trying to get me jealous saying she is getting new roomates and is moving in to the house down the street from me, wtf?? she is giving my number out to people and they are calling me saying why since i broke her heart they're coming after me. I've never had a problem like this before and would like to get any kind of advice on what to do? thank you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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-=Ice-T=-

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Ignore her, she'll get over it with time.

Although she may have bitter feelings towards you for the rest of her life...
 

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Be dilligent: gather up the evidence and take it to the police. She's stalking and harrassing you.

If some stranger calls you, say you've never heard of a girl named ___, and she must be playing pranks.
 

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Turn it around to your advantage. Having a girl begging to come back has it's benefits. Use it to make other girls wonder what is it you have that got her hooked.
 

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when i broke up with my gf she wouldn't stop for months. but she did eventually. she was begging once; "what if i moved closer to you?", "what if we have sex?" crazy i tell ya.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ya.... just kick it.

Keep the distance/silence.
If you ended... then continue your behaivor as such.
She knows the final note... just hasn't accepted the reality of it yet.

And if you truly want to break up w. her... then stick to your note.
She'll hear the music sooner or later, even if she doesn't want to.
(and tries a thousand and one ways to get at you, making you react)

Just play it cool playa.
Let it dissolve, and carry on with whats right for your life on the up.
 
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