"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i broke up with my girlfriend but she can't accept it, she keeps bugging me and I refuse to answer the phone. what should I do? just change my number and be done with it? although I'd hate to ever speak with her again so this morning i saw like 5 missed calls and she txts me trying to get me jealous saying she is getting new roomates and is moving in to the house down the street from me, wtf?? she is giving my number out to people and they are calling me saying why since i broke her heart they're coming after me. I've never had a problem like this before and would like to get any kind of advice on what to do? thank you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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-=Ice-T=-

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Ignore her, she'll get over it with time.

Although she may have bitter feelings towards you for the rest of her life...
 

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Be dilligent: gather up the evidence and take it to the police. She's stalking and harrassing you.

If some stranger calls you, say you've never heard of a girl named ___, and she must be playing pranks.
 

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Turn it around to your advantage. Having a girl begging to come back has it's benefits. Use it to make other girls wonder what is it you have that got her hooked.
 

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when i broke up with my gf she wouldn't stop for months. but she did eventually. she was begging once; "what if i moved closer to you?", "what if we have sex?" crazy i tell ya.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ya.... just kick it.

Keep the distance/silence.
If you ended... then continue your behaivor as such.
She knows the final note... just hasn't accepted the reality of it yet.

And if you truly want to break up w. her... then stick to your note.
She'll hear the music sooner or later, even if she doesn't want to.
(and tries a thousand and one ways to get at you, making you react)

Just play it cool playa.
Let it dissolve, and carry on with whats right for your life on the up.
 
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