Breaking her hurt softly?

[Patrick124]

I used to date this girl, a year older than I, shes graduated and leaving for college in a month, my first real relationship. We went for like 4 monthes and then I started acting less and less interested in her to try and i guess prepare her for when i dumped her. I dumped her, she cried, told me ti was unfair, that i shouldn't have treated her badly blah blah blah.
after 2 weeks of not talking really and then 3 weeks of vacation I came back and we started talking and fvcking again. and now shes getting all pressed again.
And tonight I'm going to a party and i had plans of trying to get with another girl there, but since apparently shes going, I cant even try[though i will dance with every girl there lol]. I want to be able to have sex with her whenever, but be able to get with whoever I want as well[the girls who all leave in a month..i want a few of them under my belt lol.]
I guess I've kinda done some boyfriendish-like things such as helping her yesterday since she just got her wisdom teeth yanked..but dammit.
Any tips on making it clear I want to jsut be friends with benefits? or just end it all together cause its goign to happen sooner or later?
what would you do?

 

[Docs]

Control yourself from being the boyfriend you don't want to be, simple.

 

[LikRetsam]

I like to make a distinction between fvck buddies and friends with benefits.

You want the former. Tell her so.

 

[UltimateScoundrel]

This girl is really attracted to you, and in more than a physical way. You either have to make a definite choice between dating her and persuing others, or do both and risk seeming like an *******.