"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Breaking her hurt softly?

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Patrick124

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I used to date this girl, a year older than I, shes graduated and leaving for college in a month, my first real relationship. We went for like 4 monthes and then I started acting less and less interested in her to try and i guess prepare her for when i dumped her. I dumped her, she cried, told me ti was unfair, that i shouldn't have treated her badly blah blah blah.
after 2 weeks of not talking really and then 3 weeks of vacation I came back and we started talking and fvcking again. and now shes getting all pressed again.
And tonight I'm going to a party and i had plans of trying to get with another girl there, but since apparently shes going, I cant even try[though i will dance with every girl there lol]. I want to be able to have sex with her whenever, but be able to get with whoever I want as well[the girls who all leave in a month..i want a few of them under my belt lol.]
I guess I've kinda done some boyfriendish-like things such as helping her yesterday since she just got her wisdom teeth yanked..but dammit.
Any tips on making it clear I want to jsut be friends with benefits? or just end it all together cause its goign to happen sooner or later?
what would you do?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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LikRetsam

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I like to make a distinction between fvck buddies and friends with benefits.

You want the former. Tell her so.
 
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This girl is really attracted to you, and in more than a physical way. You either have to make a definite choice between dating her and persuing others, or do both and risk seeming like an *******.
 
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