"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Breaking her hurt softly?

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Patrick124

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I used to date this girl, a year older than I, shes graduated and leaving for college in a month, my first real relationship. We went for like 4 monthes and then I started acting less and less interested in her to try and i guess prepare her for when i dumped her. I dumped her, she cried, told me ti was unfair, that i shouldn't have treated her badly blah blah blah.
after 2 weeks of not talking really and then 3 weeks of vacation I came back and we started talking and fvcking again. and now shes getting all pressed again.
And tonight I'm going to a party and i had plans of trying to get with another girl there, but since apparently shes going, I cant even try[though i will dance with every girl there lol]. I want to be able to have sex with her whenever, but be able to get with whoever I want as well[the girls who all leave in a month..i want a few of them under my belt lol.]
I guess I've kinda done some boyfriendish-like things such as helping her yesterday since she just got her wisdom teeth yanked..but dammit.
Any tips on making it clear I want to jsut be friends with benefits? or just end it all together cause its goign to happen sooner or later?
what would you do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I like to make a distinction between fvck buddies and friends with benefits.

You want the former. Tell her so.
 
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This girl is really attracted to you, and in more than a physical way. You either have to make a definite choice between dating her and persuing others, or do both and risk seeming like an *******.
 
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