"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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psychgrad

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I went over a girls house and had breakfast. after breakfast I wanted to go watch TV so that we can sit on her couch to start getting her to seduction phase, but then her roomate woke up and sat to the couch next to us. Well thats when I decided to just try another day. She was the one who asked me to come over so I hope she has interest.

What would you guys have done in my situation? would you continue to game her or just try again later?

Thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Desdinova

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I would have exited the living room or the entire house, and continue to game her outside, in the car, in public, or anywhere else where there aren't any distractions.
 

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As you spend more time doing this stuff, you'll realize that seduction is not a "phase" or a costume you put on; eventually you want to have an attitude which will carry on through with all the stuff you do, while you spend time with her. Then to her it might be "just breakfast," but you're taking that time and really putting your mack on through it. As long as you can exchange words with her, you should be able to run game.

Other than that, you can always look for opportunities to isolate ("can I check my email?" then when you're there, you say "hey cindy, I gotta show you something I just got"... whatever, I'm just throwing stuff at you). Thing is, you'll be facing cackblockers MANY times, you need to develop reflexes that will allow you to navigate through these situations.

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thanks. Yeah Everyday I start to lose techniques and just try to engage sets like a normal person would but with more interesting things to say to "hook" them. I go in very confident and it seems to be working. Also, not thinking about trying to pick women up and just see if they can be friends is good also.,
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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