"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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psychgrad

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I went over a girls house and had breakfast. after breakfast I wanted to go watch TV so that we can sit on her couch to start getting her to seduction phase, but then her roomate woke up and sat to the couch next to us. Well thats when I decided to just try another day. She was the one who asked me to come over so I hope she has interest.

What would you guys have done in my situation? would you continue to game her or just try again later?

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I would have exited the living room or the entire house, and continue to game her outside, in the car, in public, or anywhere else where there aren't any distractions.
 

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As you spend more time doing this stuff, you'll realize that seduction is not a "phase" or a costume you put on; eventually you want to have an attitude which will carry on through with all the stuff you do, while you spend time with her. Then to her it might be "just breakfast," but you're taking that time and really putting your mack on through it. As long as you can exchange words with her, you should be able to run game.

Other than that, you can always look for opportunities to isolate ("can I check my email?" then when you're there, you say "hey cindy, I gotta show you something I just got"... whatever, I'm just throwing stuff at you). Thing is, you'll be facing cackblockers MANY times, you need to develop reflexes that will allow you to navigate through these situations.

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thanks. Yeah Everyday I start to lose techniques and just try to engage sets like a normal person would but with more interesting things to say to "hook" them. I go in very confident and it seems to be working. Also, not thinking about trying to pick women up and just see if they can be friends is good also.,
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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