"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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psychgrad

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I went over a girls house and had breakfast. after breakfast I wanted to go watch TV so that we can sit on her couch to start getting her to seduction phase, but then her roomate woke up and sat to the couch next to us. Well thats when I decided to just try another day. She was the one who asked me to come over so I hope she has interest.

What would you guys have done in my situation? would you continue to game her or just try again later?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I would have exited the living room or the entire house, and continue to game her outside, in the car, in public, or anywhere else where there aren't any distractions.
 

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As you spend more time doing this stuff, you'll realize that seduction is not a "phase" or a costume you put on; eventually you want to have an attitude which will carry on through with all the stuff you do, while you spend time with her. Then to her it might be "just breakfast," but you're taking that time and really putting your mack on through it. As long as you can exchange words with her, you should be able to run game.

Other than that, you can always look for opportunities to isolate ("can I check my email?" then when you're there, you say "hey cindy, I gotta show you something I just got"... whatever, I'm just throwing stuff at you). Thing is, you'll be facing cackblockers MANY times, you need to develop reflexes that will allow you to navigate through these situations.

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thanks. Yeah Everyday I start to lose techniques and just try to engage sets like a normal person would but with more interesting things to say to "hook" them. I go in very confident and it seems to be working. Also, not thinking about trying to pick women up and just see if they can be friends is good also.,
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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