"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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psychgrad

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I went over a girls house and had breakfast. after breakfast I wanted to go watch TV so that we can sit on her couch to start getting her to seduction phase, but then her roomate woke up and sat to the couch next to us. Well thats when I decided to just try another day. She was the one who asked me to come over so I hope she has interest.

What would you guys have done in my situation? would you continue to game her or just try again later?

Thanks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I would have exited the living room or the entire house, and continue to game her outside, in the car, in public, or anywhere else where there aren't any distractions.
 

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As you spend more time doing this stuff, you'll realize that seduction is not a "phase" or a costume you put on; eventually you want to have an attitude which will carry on through with all the stuff you do, while you spend time with her. Then to her it might be "just breakfast," but you're taking that time and really putting your mack on through it. As long as you can exchange words with her, you should be able to run game.

Other than that, you can always look for opportunities to isolate ("can I check my email?" then when you're there, you say "hey cindy, I gotta show you something I just got"... whatever, I'm just throwing stuff at you). Thing is, you'll be facing cackblockers MANY times, you need to develop reflexes that will allow you to navigate through these situations.

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thanks. Yeah Everyday I start to lose techniques and just try to engage sets like a normal person would but with more interesting things to say to "hook" them. I go in very confident and it seems to be working. Also, not thinking about trying to pick women up and just see if they can be friends is good also.,
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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