"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
break up sex?
- Thread starter Kourt
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
rdxshooter
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Should
should
It is the best sex, for one of 2 reasons
#1 girl looses all inhabitions and insecurities because she isn't planning on ever seeing you again
OR
#2 She bangs the ever livvin hell out of you trying to win you back
Either way you can't loose
SHARKZILLA
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DrSassyPants
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Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
Shouldn't be done in your situation bro!!! Get rid of that psycho and move on!!!
PIMP
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
I mean, when you know that this is the last chance to bone this broad... and that it will take several hours for other prospects to come knocking at the door.
Obviously you hit that shyt!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
MidnightResistance
Senior Don Juan
She came down from the bedroom and ****ed me senseless the morning AFTER she dumped me.
I wasn't sure wether I should have let her or not. My **** said yes, so I went with it.
Did I do the right thing? Or was I a wuss for giving in?
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
this is just more proof that girls like sex in the same way guys do and dont have to be 'emotionaly' with a guy for it!
MidnightResistance
Senior Don Juan
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.