"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kourt

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hey guys, is breakup sex something that should or shouldnt be done? I was just kind of wondering about it since it may be an opportunity pretty soon here . . .
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It is the best sex, for one of 2 reasons

#1 girl looses all inhabitions and insecurities because she isn't planning on ever seeing you again

OR

#2 She bangs the ever livvin hell out of you trying to win you back

Either way you can't loose
 

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Unless it's "pity sex" where she justs lets you "have your way." Then don't do it if you want to have any hope of preserving any attraction that she might have left for you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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nishbuk

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Originally posted by Bible_Belt
Unless it's "pity sex" where she justs lets you "have your way." Then don't do it if you want to have any hope of preserving any attraction that she might have left for you.
It's really hard to tell when this happens. It may happen to you and you won't even know it for a couple of weeks, and then BAM, she dumps you. So watch out for this.
 

Pimp-sicle

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Originally posted by Kourt
hey guys, is breakup sex something that should or shouldnt be done? I was just kind of wondering about it since it may be an opportunity pretty soon here . . .
Shouldn't be done in your situation bro!!! Get rid of that psycho and move on!!!


PIMP
 

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I hope this is a joke question...

I mean, when you know that this is the last chance to bone this broad... and that it will take several hours for other prospects to come knocking at the door.

Obviously you hit that shyt!
 

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Originally posted by Kourt
hey guys, is breakup sex something that should or shouldnt be done? I was just kind of wondering about it since it may be an opportunity pretty soon here . . .

That'd probably be the day she doesn't take her pill.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If you're talking about her like moving away, where she knows you guys are gonna break up, then yes. But if you plan on breaking up with her just for the hell of it, shes gonna be ****ing pissed that you used her.
 

Kourt

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yeah, dont think its going to happen. . .
 

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My last LTR broke up with me, had to spend the night over at my place. I was on the sofa.
She came down from the bedroom and ****ed me senseless the morning AFTER she dumped me.

I wasn't sure wether I should have let her or not. My **** said yes, so I went with it.

Did I do the right thing? Or was I a wuss for giving in?
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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Originally posted by MidnightResistance
My last LTR broke up with me, had to spend the night over at my place. I was on the sofa.
She came down from the bedroom and ****ed me senseless the morning AFTER she dumped me.

I wasn't sure wether I should have let her or not. My **** said yes, so I went with it.

Did I do the right thing? Or was I a wuss for giving in?
this is just more proof that girls like sex in the same way guys do and dont have to be 'emotionaly' with a guy for it!
 

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I'm kinda glad she did, because I was REALLY horny at the time.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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