"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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break up sex?

Kourt

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hey guys, is breakup sex something that should or shouldnt be done? I was just kind of wondering about it since it may be an opportunity pretty soon here . . .
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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rdxshooter

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It is the best sex, for one of 2 reasons

#1 girl looses all inhabitions and insecurities because she isn't planning on ever seeing you again

OR

#2 She bangs the ever livvin hell out of you trying to win you back

Either way you can't loose
 

Bible_Belt

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Unless it's "pity sex" where she justs lets you "have your way." Then don't do it if you want to have any hope of preserving any attraction that she might have left for you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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nishbuk

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Originally posted by Bible_Belt
Unless it's "pity sex" where she justs lets you "have your way." Then don't do it if you want to have any hope of preserving any attraction that she might have left for you.
It's really hard to tell when this happens. It may happen to you and you won't even know it for a couple of weeks, and then BAM, she dumps you. So watch out for this.
 

Pimp-sicle

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Originally posted by Kourt
hey guys, is breakup sex something that should or shouldnt be done? I was just kind of wondering about it since it may be an opportunity pretty soon here . . .
Shouldn't be done in your situation bro!!! Get rid of that psycho and move on!!!


PIMP
 

So pimp its scary

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I hope this is a joke question...

I mean, when you know that this is the last chance to bone this broad... and that it will take several hours for other prospects to come knocking at the door.

Obviously you hit that shyt!
 

mrRuckus

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Originally posted by Kourt
hey guys, is breakup sex something that should or shouldnt be done? I was just kind of wondering about it since it may be an opportunity pretty soon here . . .

That'd probably be the day she doesn't take her pill.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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splinterkb

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If you're talking about her like moving away, where she knows you guys are gonna break up, then yes. But if you plan on breaking up with her just for the hell of it, shes gonna be ****ing pissed that you used her.
 

Kourt

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yeah, dont think its going to happen. . .
 

MidnightResistance

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My last LTR broke up with me, had to spend the night over at my place. I was on the sofa.
She came down from the bedroom and ****ed me senseless the morning AFTER she dumped me.

I wasn't sure wether I should have let her or not. My **** said yes, so I went with it.

Did I do the right thing? Or was I a wuss for giving in?
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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Originally posted by MidnightResistance
My last LTR broke up with me, had to spend the night over at my place. I was on the sofa.
She came down from the bedroom and ****ed me senseless the morning AFTER she dumped me.

I wasn't sure wether I should have let her or not. My **** said yes, so I went with it.

Did I do the right thing? Or was I a wuss for giving in?
this is just more proof that girls like sex in the same way guys do and dont have to be 'emotionaly' with a guy for it!
 

MidnightResistance

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I'm kinda glad she did, because I was REALLY horny at the time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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