"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bpd?

Borknagar

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This chick is officially retarded. Like every HB9-10.

I was at Walgreens buying cologne about 4 months ago and I gamed this chick that was there(another customer) not gonna get into details about what was said, but we chatted up for 45 minutes, and her going "I'm so glad I met you!"

Well like most lame girls, no matter how good it goes initially even though her texts were good for a week or so she eventually got shady and meeting up from the get go was impossible. So deleted her umber and said **** it.

2 months later she sees me walking out of the store and decides to text me again, I just went with it, she started showing interest for some dumb reason. My birthday comes up and she insists on meeting up so we did, she was with a friend and so was on. Had fun with drinks at my place. Then tried texting a few days later and then again ignored both times, kinda figured.

Now 2 more months again, and the ***** adds me on facebook? I'm like wtf? seriously? She said her phone broke(how convenient, right after we last hung out), and she finally got a new one.

Do I have a retard BPD on my hands or what?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Mantis Toboggan

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What Solomon said.

She's just your typical flakey girl. If you were already screwing her, then hey, continue if she wants to (and you're bored). If you weren't screwing her, then dealing with this is just a waste of time.
 

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Relating to your post, Borknagar, I think there is something to learn here.

Help me out here guys.

What is an AFC?

I used to think an AFC was just your average frustrated chump who doesn't get what attraction is about. Who just "doesn't get it."

But then I read so many posts about how women frustrate you. How they flake, they seek attention, they play their games, they make you lose your composure and your inner calm by doing all these things women just tend to do.

And is the moment you let the frustration get to you, is that the moment you realize you are being an AFC?
 

Borknagar

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Nah she's kinda out of my league, anything above a 6-7 is impossible for me most the time.

I don't really care all that much and is still nexted as far as I'm concerned.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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