"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bpd?

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Borknagar

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This chick is officially retarded. Like every HB9-10.

I was at Walgreens buying cologne about 4 months ago and I gamed this chick that was there(another customer) not gonna get into details about what was said, but we chatted up for 45 minutes, and her going "I'm so glad I met you!"

Well like most lame girls, no matter how good it goes initially even though her texts were good for a week or so she eventually got shady and meeting up from the get go was impossible. So deleted her umber and said **** it.

2 months later she sees me walking out of the store and decides to text me again, I just went with it, she started showing interest for some dumb reason. My birthday comes up and she insists on meeting up so we did, she was with a friend and so was on. Had fun with drinks at my place. Then tried texting a few days later and then again ignored both times, kinda figured.

Now 2 more months again, and the ***** adds me on facebook? I'm like wtf? seriously? She said her phone broke(how convenient, right after we last hung out), and she finally got a new one.

Do I have a retard BPD on my hands or what?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What Solomon said.

She's just your typical flakey girl. If you were already screwing her, then hey, continue if she wants to (and you're bored). If you weren't screwing her, then dealing with this is just a waste of time.
 
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Relating to your post, Borknagar, I think there is something to learn here.

Help me out here guys.

What is an AFC?

I used to think an AFC was just your average frustrated chump who doesn't get what attraction is about. Who just "doesn't get it."

But then I read so many posts about how women frustrate you. How they flake, they seek attention, they play their games, they make you lose your composure and your inner calm by doing all these things women just tend to do.

And is the moment you let the frustration get to you, is that the moment you realize you are being an AFC?
 
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Nah she's kinda out of my league, anything above a 6-7 is impossible for me most the time.

I don't really care all that much and is still nexted as far as I'm concerned.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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