"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Borknagar

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This chick is officially retarded. Like every HB9-10.

I was at Walgreens buying cologne about 4 months ago and I gamed this chick that was there(another customer) not gonna get into details about what was said, but we chatted up for 45 minutes, and her going "I'm so glad I met you!"

Well like most lame girls, no matter how good it goes initially even though her texts were good for a week or so she eventually got shady and meeting up from the get go was impossible. So deleted her umber and said **** it.

2 months later she sees me walking out of the store and decides to text me again, I just went with it, she started showing interest for some dumb reason. My birthday comes up and she insists on meeting up so we did, she was with a friend and so was on. Had fun with drinks at my place. Then tried texting a few days later and then again ignored both times, kinda figured.

Now 2 more months again, and the ***** adds me on facebook? I'm like wtf? seriously? She said her phone broke(how convenient, right after we last hung out), and she finally got a new one.

Do I have a retard BPD on my hands or what?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What Solomon said.

She's just your typical flakey girl. If you were already screwing her, then hey, continue if she wants to (and you're bored). If you weren't screwing her, then dealing with this is just a waste of time.
 
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Relating to your post, Borknagar, I think there is something to learn here.

Help me out here guys.

What is an AFC?

I used to think an AFC was just your average frustrated chump who doesn't get what attraction is about. Who just "doesn't get it."

But then I read so many posts about how women frustrate you. How they flake, they seek attention, they play their games, they make you lose your composure and your inner calm by doing all these things women just tend to do.

And is the moment you let the frustration get to you, is that the moment you realize you are being an AFC?
 
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Nah she's kinda out of my league, anything above a 6-7 is impossible for me most the time.

I don't really care all that much and is still nexted as far as I'm concerned.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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