Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Bpd?

Borknagar

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This chick is officially retarded. Like every HB9-10.

I was at Walgreens buying cologne about 4 months ago and I gamed this chick that was there(another customer) not gonna get into details about what was said, but we chatted up for 45 minutes, and her going "I'm so glad I met you!"

Well like most lame girls, no matter how good it goes initially even though her texts were good for a week or so she eventually got shady and meeting up from the get go was impossible. So deleted her umber and said **** it.

2 months later she sees me walking out of the store and decides to text me again, I just went with it, she started showing interest for some dumb reason. My birthday comes up and she insists on meeting up so we did, she was with a friend and so was on. Had fun with drinks at my place. Then tried texting a few days later and then again ignored both times, kinda figured.

Now 2 more months again, and the ***** adds me on facebook? I'm like wtf? seriously? She said her phone broke(how convenient, right after we last hung out), and she finally got a new one.

Do I have a retard BPD on my hands or what?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mantis Toboggan

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What Solomon said.

She's just your typical flakey girl. If you were already screwing her, then hey, continue if she wants to (and you're bored). If you weren't screwing her, then dealing with this is just a waste of time.
 

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Relating to your post, Borknagar, I think there is something to learn here.

Help me out here guys.

What is an AFC?

I used to think an AFC was just your average frustrated chump who doesn't get what attraction is about. Who just "doesn't get it."

But then I read so many posts about how women frustrate you. How they flake, they seek attention, they play their games, they make you lose your composure and your inner calm by doing all these things women just tend to do.

And is the moment you let the frustration get to you, is that the moment you realize you are being an AFC?
 

Borknagar

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Nah she's kinda out of my league, anything above a 6-7 is impossible for me most the time.

I don't really care all that much and is still nexted as far as I'm concerned.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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