"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bpd?

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Borknagar

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This chick is officially retarded. Like every HB9-10.

I was at Walgreens buying cologne about 4 months ago and I gamed this chick that was there(another customer) not gonna get into details about what was said, but we chatted up for 45 minutes, and her going "I'm so glad I met you!"

Well like most lame girls, no matter how good it goes initially even though her texts were good for a week or so she eventually got shady and meeting up from the get go was impossible. So deleted her umber and said **** it.

2 months later she sees me walking out of the store and decides to text me again, I just went with it, she started showing interest for some dumb reason. My birthday comes up and she insists on meeting up so we did, she was with a friend and so was on. Had fun with drinks at my place. Then tried texting a few days later and then again ignored both times, kinda figured.

Now 2 more months again, and the ***** adds me on facebook? I'm like wtf? seriously? She said her phone broke(how convenient, right after we last hung out), and she finally got a new one.

Do I have a retard BPD on my hands or what?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mantis Toboggan

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What Solomon said.

She's just your typical flakey girl. If you were already screwing her, then hey, continue if she wants to (and you're bored). If you weren't screwing her, then dealing with this is just a waste of time.
 
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Relating to your post, Borknagar, I think there is something to learn here.

Help me out here guys.

What is an AFC?

I used to think an AFC was just your average frustrated chump who doesn't get what attraction is about. Who just "doesn't get it."

But then I read so many posts about how women frustrate you. How they flake, they seek attention, they play their games, they make you lose your composure and your inner calm by doing all these things women just tend to do.

And is the moment you let the frustration get to you, is that the moment you realize you are being an AFC?
 
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Borknagar

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Nah she's kinda out of my league, anything above a 6-7 is impossible for me most the time.

I don't really care all that much and is still nexted as far as I'm concerned.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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