"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Boys I have a problem

frivolousz21

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ok..so I had the online..date last night..here is the issue..

it was great..I mean perfect...except.she is heavier than I thought..not fat at all..but I like thinner women..but I care..now I dont know what to do....I dont know!

I know that most likely overtime I will stop caring because of her size..which is not that big...but not what I want.

but I am attached..I will see her 1 more time and if I dont feel right about this..I will let it go!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MrCode

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Don't feel guilty because you have certain standards that you prefer women to meet.

It sounds like you already made the decision to give her another try and see how it goes. I think that is fine.

If you decide to drop her, so be it. She may not like it, but honestly you don't owe her anything. But this just goes to show how much of a waste internet-based relationships can be...
 

Desdinova

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but I am attached
I think you mean that you're "attracted" even though she's not what you're looking for physically, and what the hell is wrong with that? What's better, a physically attractive woman who steals all your money and treats you like 5hit, or a woman who's looks average and stimulates your mind and your d1ck?
 

frivolousz21

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lol...to be honest a big ass is a huge turn on for me and a lot of guys! :)


but your right I owe her nothing..but I care about her....dj or not...or even close to being a DJ..she is a human being..and I will give her a fair shot..as she did me...

and your right Internet relationships are mostly a waste....

you have to be physically ATTRACTED before you become EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED..

she is probably 5 3 140...:)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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frivolousz21

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I think you mean that you're "attracted" even though she's not what you're looking for physically, and what the hell is wrong with that? What's better, a physically attractive woman who steals all your money, or a woman who's looks average and stimulates your mind and your d1ck?
you are 100000 percent correct...I am attracted to her..when we meet..I kissed her in 5 secs :)..it was over then..I knew it she knew it...I will see what happens after the next date.
 

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TillTheEndOfTime

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Originally posted by MrCode
Don't feel guilty because you have certain standards that you prefer women to meet.

It sounds like you already made the decision to give her another try and see how it goes. I think that is fine.

If you decide to drop her, so be it. She may not like it, but honestly you don't owe her anything. But this just goes to show how much of a waste internet-based relationships can be...
A lot of non-internet based relationships can be a waste of time too :rolleyes:
 

jakeyboy

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you're damn right friv, she's human like anyone else, chance her mate. i hardly doubt the results would be disappointing. :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Nachos wonders what she looks like.

Will you upload a photo?
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by nachos
Nachos wonders what she looks like.

Will you upload a photo?
Quit speaking in 3rd person, its annoying and stupid.
 
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