"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
BOYfriend destroyer! How to!
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It's not nececerily a nice thing to do.. Breaking up a relationship. The way I see it, it was doomed anyway and I just speeded up the process.
Get this - I have no "game" developed whatsoever. Im just a regular guy with his inner world in a good place. Confident, know what I want, ambitious and a hardcore optimist. I think the inner workings of the mind are more important than learning all these routines and magic trics. Get you inner world together, have an active lifestyle and it'll shine through. Sorry for my english. When you think in norwegian and write in english, the grammar can get a bit messed up
LostAndConfused
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You've gotta put yourself in a HB's shoes. First off, women are promiscuous by nature so they are bound to cheat on their boyfriend if he doesn't give her what she needs (terrible I know, thats why I think all women are hoes and sl**s and have no respect for them anyways). Secondly, Guys are as abundant as water in the ocean to a HB. When a HB goes out, there are guys left and right for her, like mortals offering their d***s as a sacrifice to a goddess. So they are bound to have a boyfriend. And after she breaks up with that boyfriend, shes bound to have another ready. And another. And another more. So you are probably going to have to assert to a non-single woman that you are better than her boyfriend. (no homo) Its the sad truth, there are more "attractive" guys than "attractive" girls in this world (everywhere you go you are bound to find HB 1-4s by the dozen).
DJ1234
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Yeah, I have to agree with that.. I lost a great girl a little while ago because some guy pulled this stuff on her. There should be another thread: "How to keep your girlfriend and not let boyfriend-destroyers affect her."DJ1234 said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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DJ1234
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Exactly, supposedly there isn't much you can do about it, according to another thread...it's really up to the girl...Axcell said:
I guess the guys spinning plates or not looking for anything special/LT probably wouldn't agree...
MightyMate
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KEEP THE SUGGESTIONS COMING
Much Love. to the community~"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
it was common sense but what could be better than common sense righ? Nways I got really emotional with her and everything then she started complaining about her boyfriend ( GREEN LIGHT)Ye so i was on his boyfriends side but then i could tell she was falling for me hehe.. im a master at reading body langauge bit ch. es!!! So WOO finally gonna be my first 9.5 HB, What more could i possible want? My confidence is like 1000% right now and why not? Woudnt women love a guy with 1000% confidence nam sayin
ive been acting like no1 is better than because that sht is true nobody is better than me or any of us cuz we are all humans. But now im gettin good with women that is not my main priority anymore which is kidna coo cuz i aint some horny ass AFC anymore!MooseGod
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I might also add that you don't look for LTRs doing this. Any chick who would cheat on her boyfriend with you is likely to do the same with some other guy.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Play the Game
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Wouldn't that be manipulation? In the end the girl has to want to be with you not some other dude. The only reasonable option in your case would be to keep her tied up.Axcell said:
I wouldn't go that far. Strong and smart doesn't necessarily get women, the former helps but the latter rarely does. It's usually about spiking her emotions and acting all fake as if you're Mr Cool and Confident, aka. "game". There are, by my definitions, wusses who have a decent gf. Life isn't always fair, infact it's pretty messed up. Conversely, some guys do deserve their gf (and/or better).mongolboy said:Ye totally agreed this is a DOG EAT DOG WORLD! yall if u dont know
MM
Well, this thread is practically all manipulation as well. However, in this case you are manipulating a woman's mind to believe that she can do much better than her current boyfriend, and that you are the better man.Play the Game said:Wouldn't that be manipulation? In the end the girl has to want to be with you not some other dude. The only reasonable option in your case would be to keep her tied up.
Definetly a war.. lol.
Much LoveKeep the suggestions coming !
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If I knew how to do that. I got no goddamn clue.Play the Game said:
But boyfriend destroyers seem to be my only option cuz every attractive girl has one, may as well learn, unless you're rich and famous. If you ain't, getting rejected could hurt more than being stung by a hornet.
Often times, I find myself flying blind (guessing what to do in each situation), when I get told I have a boyfriend, I normally just walk off...WTF? I have a 50/50 chance at getting a girl. and I lost. Girls always have the upper hand, and the odds are not in your favor. But these BFD's are very useful in getting my game better.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.