Boundaries - The final word :crackup:

[sylvester the cat]

Today i learnt a lesson in boundaries.

i am seeing this 'BPD'. I fell in love with her pretty quick. but thanks to this site i am able to keep from gushing forth my pathetic but overwhelming feelings.

anyhow, i wanted us to be more than sex. i want us to be exclusive, marry, have kids, the full works - but i knew i couldnt say this. to do this would be tantatmount to being a pvssy. and knowing how 'well' doing this has turned out in the past i knew to keep my big trap shut.

so whaddayanknow. following my manipulative games, she is asking 'the question'. 'what are we?'

so i didnt have to set boundaries verbally as she came setting them herself. what boundaries i set i set previously through actions - not rewarding flakey behaviour, not chasing etc. we are in tune so i didnt feel the need to set them. she knows the score. and when comes the time she doesn't - then i know we aren't in tune no more so what needs of boundaries then? it's over.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

You gonna get in a serious thing with a genuine BPD....?

Good luck sons. Just don't get yaself arrested and/or killed.

 

[sylvester the cat]

You gonna get in a serious thing with a genuine BPD....?

Good luck sons. Just don't get yaself arrested and/or killed.

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[TheMonkeyKing]

I look forward to counselling you in 6-12months time.

You're welcome in advance, Sylvester.

 

[sylvester the cat]

I look forward to counselling you in 6-12months time.

You're welcome in advance, Sylvester.

already been there, done that. learnt i was a bpd myself hence why i attracted them.

thanks to this site i am better equipped to deal with them.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Fair enough. They are easy pickings for the astute practitioner, granted.

I repeat, don't get yaself arrested/killed.

 

[scsniper]

You can give me a borderline over a histrionic any day of the week.
at least they actually have some grasp of reality.
even if it is limited.

once you get a handle of the duel weapons of N/C and ABANDONMENT,applied in the right doses.
You can relieve the glory days over and over.
Their object constancy is right up their with the goldfish.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

she is asking 'the question'. 'what are we?'

so i didnt have to set boundaries verbally as she came setting them herself. what boundaries i set i set previously through actions - not rewarding flakey behaviour, not chasing etc. we are in tune so i didnt feel the need to set them. she knows the score. and when comes the time she doesn't - then i know we aren't in tune no more so what needs of boundaries then? it's over.

I think this is what we call an epiphany.

 

[Octogonal]

Are you being serious?