Boring Sex with your GF / How to make it work?

[Divorced w 3]

How do you turn an "otherwise sheltered woman" into a slut?

You make her *** so hard that she thinks her back muscles spasmed out. Slowly but surely just keep moving her forward into all the stuff that turns you on and she will go along for the ride. You need to go down on her, you need to work yourself in there slowly, get a sense of the tone of the situation and then you can ramp it up. She needs you to make her feel safe. Don’t worry right now about getting your deepest fantasies off you are laying the foundation for the long game. Do all the stuff that keeps her close to you physically so you can connect her emotional experience to the physical, you need to train her brain to equate you being close to her with you breaking her vag open. The **** is your best friend. Suggested starting points would be on your side spooning, keep her close to you. Or, you could simply Christian Gray her and hit her doggy but you need to not force it in there and then you can start speeding it up. If you’re going to go right for the doggy you better be giving off dominant vibes but she will be eating out of your hand if you do this properly. Have her drop on the floor and blow you after you bust in her doing that.

 

[CornbreadFed]

to each their own, tons of men would disagree and have had awesome experiences.

That tells me a lot about that man and it’s not a good impression either.

 

[Mertz09]

With all other women you're paying with your time and money (indirectly).

All women will claim the same about guys dating/marrying younger women. - He can't handle a real woman/What do they have in common - shout in chorus the 35-45yrs old, past the wall and saddled with baggage women.
In reality, in both situations, they are just bad mouthing their competition.

“With all other women you're paying with your time and money (indirectly).”
i’ve heard this, most of my adult life and must agree.

 

[Murk]

Role playing always works for me. Also tying them up, recording it.

Tbh sex with my ex became a chore when she wanted kids and I didn’t so I cheated on her and ended it.

 

[Learning Curve]

You make her *** so hard that she thinks her back muscles spasmed out. Slowly but surely just keep moving her forward into all the stuff that turns you on and she will go along for the ride. You need to go down on her, you need to work yourself in there slowly, get a sense of the tone of the situation and then you can ramp it up. She needs you to make her feel safe. Don’t worry right now about getting your deepest fantasies off you are laying the foundation for the long game. Do all the stuff that keeps her close to you physically so you can connect her emotional experience to the physical, you need to train her brain to equate you being close to her with you breaking her vag open. The **** is your best friend. Suggested starting points would be on your side spooning, keep her close to you. Or, you could simply Christian Gray her and hit her doggy but you need to not force it in there and then you can start speeding it up. If you’re going to go right for the doggy you better be giving off dominant vibes but she will be eating out of your hand if you do this properly. Have her drop on the floor and blow you after you bust in her doing that.

Good points. Thanks.

Most of the things you mentioned are already in place.