I don't know if you will follow through, what guarentee do I have?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This dude's a moron. I know you weren't white knighting. This guy knows nothing of PD lol
Also can I just say, since I posted here asking for help and people messaged me and posted in this thread to help me out, I have actually felt better about things and even though I have my moments, they don't last as long, and my relationship has improved 5x. So, even though my feelings will never change, my reaction to my feelings can.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I would apologize for loosing my control. I would like this forum to not devolve into this kind of rubbish. I think it weakness to be impulsive. I would gain nothing in this.
And as for him he can believe what he wants to believe about me. Ignoring.
And as for him he can believe what he wants to believe about me. Ignoring.
He's a really bad troll. It doesn't matter what he says, you'll continue being a psychopath and I'll continue being a non-person regardless.
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This thread has run its course. Closed.
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